How to coax the wife?
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Something to with with the ghost in your office?
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Tell him to dump his wife and go with you... hehehe sorry, just joking.Originally posted by Honeybunz:oh ok. Earlier on sms him to see if he's alright. The reply didn't sound too positive. sigh
If he did it (not with you since you would know, I think, hahaha) then stop doing it.
If he did not do it, just tell the wife to sh*t up and get a life. Reacting to her if he did not do it will only make it look worse.
You must be pretty good looking for the wifey to suspect you.
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ahem.. be seen by them going out with me
but seriously, no.. suspicion feeds on the imagination.. just go on with your work but keep in mind the distance and all that, let nothing on your side fuel whatever doubts she has...
do not go for lunch with him and stuff like that.. have lunch or dinner with other people..
hope everything works out..Originally posted by Honeybunz:seriously lah. Anyway or not?
My friend's wife suspected him and me (cuz we work together). I offered to do the explanation, but my friend said dun wan for fear that it might complicate the matter. He looked very down today. -
Not much help either, some people are just plain paranoid. Maybe sending in the shrinks may help or even worsen things.
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yoz honey...
is there something u are not telling us..
i seems to think that there is a critical piece missing in the entire puzzle -
yo rumour-monger..
what are you trying to insinuate?Originally posted by Mospeada:yoz honey...
is there something u are not telling us..
i seems to think that there is a critical piece missing in the entire puzzle -
For me- the answer is No. If he fool around, there is no more trust.Originally posted by Honeybunz:Do you think women are forgiving to cheating husbands? I am speaking of in general.
I know gf are not so forgiving, cuz dump the bf can find a better one. But in the case of a married couple, somemore got kid one, do you think the wife will forgive?
I'll definately divorce & take the kids, sue him for all his assets. That's why he dare not. Ha, ha.
Tell your colleague to spend more time with wife & family.
Buy her something expensive, wine & dine her. Stop going out with friends. If need to, keep to once a week. Come home early, can also bring her along. -
Some women are just plain paranoid la
I kenna before also
His wife suspects we are having an affair
Then once she call me up to scold me and accuse me of being with her husband (coz he was not home yet)
Thing was, I was out with my friends so I was arguing with her on the phone and my friend snatched my phone from me and scolded her
She never bothered me from that day onwards.
I dunno what she is insecure about
Her husband works like a dog to support the family and she don't even need to come up with a single cent
At first it started with prank calls
Then I was complaining and my friend said it could be his wife coz she does that when she goes through his phone and sees a female name
Yeah I was pretty pissed and told her to stop it coz she was like calling me at 2am in the morning and I keep my phone on coz of my customers overseas and I do get calls then but hello!!! Work and prank calls different ><
Wah piang his wife his psycho I think -
what an honour...Originally posted by the Bear:yo rumour-monger..
what are you trying to insinuate?
i am merely asking...
did i imply anything?
tis ur interpretion
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you know what you were implyingOriginally posted by Mospeada:what an honour...
i am merely asking...
did i imply anything?
tis ur interpretion -
why dun u tell me what i was trying to imply...Originally posted by the Bear:you know what you were implying
i bet u got them on ur mind as well...
aren't we all thinking abt the same thing...
the diff is that i am more frank -
Honeybunz,
dun get me wrong...
i mean to say, u have not tell us the entire incident from the start to when it happened...
i dun think u need to do anything cos ur conscience is clear. The guy may have a bad record before, he will need to prove to his wife that he is innocent.
That is what i meant, unlike what other thinks.
I dun assume -
nope, i didn't have anything on my mind except a suspicious wife who is letting her imagination get away with her and honeybunz going "wtf??"
only your words insinuated those things...
remember.. words are like weapons, only that they cannot be sheathed once they are bared...
and you, of all people, should know thatOriginally posted by Mospeada:why dun u tell me what i was trying to imply...
i bet u got them on ur mind as well...
aren't we all thinking abt the same thing...
the diff is that i am more frank -
i do... i do...Originally posted by the Bear:nope, i didn't have anything on my mind except a suspicious wife who is letting her imagination get away with her and honeybunz going "wtf??"
only your words insinuated those things...
remember.. words are like weapons, only that they cannot be sheathed once they are bared...
and you, of all people, should know that
and i do know the need to tell apart virtual and reality...
tis a sad thing that many pple judege me as how i am in this virtual world. I believe a wise bear like you know what i meant. -
how very interesting when a thread of asking for help became a 2 party talk thread
dun u find it most intriguing -
For his sake, best to keep your distance and stop SMS or calling him for matters other than work. No point giving the wife more fodder to be suspicious about.
He has to figure out how to reassure his wife himself. The best way you can help is to minimise your presence in front of the couple.Originally posted by Honeybunz:oh ok. Earlier on sms him to see if he's alright. The reply didn't sound too positive. sigh -
I agree with you. The more you sms.. and show concern for the hubby.. may cause the wife to think more into it.. women are jealous creatures.. I think you should try to minimise ur contact with ur colleague..Originally posted by choco B:For his sake, best to keep your distance and stop SMS or calling him for matters other than work. No point giving the wife more fodder to be suspicious about.
He has to figure out how to reassure his wife himself. The best way you can help is to minimise your presence in front of the couple. -
Qing zhe zhi qing - Chinese proverb that loosely translates to"The innocent will always be innocent". In such a case, the more any of you tries to explain things, the worse things will become. If the both of you are truly clean, then there is no necessity to prove anything. Let the facts will speak for themselves.
The other side of the story : No smoke without fire...... -
Perform very good on the bed.
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I cannot tell the entire incident cuz I also dunno. My friend didn't tell me much and I saw that he's so troubled and I just wanna stay out of this, so I tried not to ask too much, even though I offered to do the explanation (to whatever she might ask me when confronting).Originally posted by Mospeada:Honeybunz,
dun get me wrong...
i mean to say, u have not tell us the entire incident from the start to when it happened...
i dun think u need to do anything cos ur conscience is clear. The guy may have a bad record before, he will need to prove to his wife that he is innocent.
That is what i meant, unlike what other thinks.
I dun assume
I only know that the wife who 90% of the time based overseas suddenly called back & accused him (of what exactly I also dunno). I think this happened end of last week bah? I have been on leave, so I didn't get to see this friend & wasn't aware of this. But yesterday I went back to office so he told me.
I asked him exactly what the wife's msg. He mumbled something, like dun wan to talk further about it. So I didn't bother to ask him what his response to her. -
Lielat jialat lah.cannot coax but can coke her to make her calm downOriginally posted by Honeybunz:How does a man coax his wife if his wife suspects him of cheating? -
U notty ArOriginally posted by Honeybunz:seriously lah. Anyway or not?
My friend's wife suspected him and me (cuz we work together). I offered to do the explanation, but my friend said dun wan for fear that it might complicate the matter. He looked very down today. -
Well, my gf suspect me of cheating once cos someone sent me some ranchy messages...but I was able to convince her otherwise because of my daily track records and actions.
I mean if you are known to be flirty and stuff..its harder to prove your innocence...
So its more wiser if you watch your steps now then clean the mess later
Cheers~~ -
U SMS him at tis hr! He's gonna die faster! kekekkekOriginally posted by Honeybunz:oh ok. Earlier on sms him to see if he's alright. The reply didn't sound too positive. sigh
There's a tactic..... how to tell u neh....... lol...... -
just bcos you received some messages she suspicious? wow I feel so sorry for you.Originally posted by Mid9Sun:Well, my gf suspect me of cheating once cos someone sent me some ranchy messages...but I was able to convince her otherwise because of my daily track records and actions.
I mean if you are known to be flirty and stuff..its harder to prove your innocence...
So its more wiser if you watch your steps now then clean the mess later
Cheers~~