How many real friends do you have?
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I hv 1 good friend who had passed away a few yrs ago...
and I haven't had time to visit his grave yet.
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what happened?Originally posted by eagle:I hv 1 good friend who had passed away a few yrs ago...
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seriously 2.Originally posted by Jimi_Goh:As in those you contact everyday, talk online, sms, call and go out every weekend.
oh ya and some pri sch friends -
(mistyblue)
when you get older, people go in their directions. essentially you are left with yourself even if you have a thousand friends - especially women when they get married, they call you when they need your help or money, never to find out about you.
WHOA......COOL JIE-JIE!!!!!!!
I am lonely, but I do like the solitude to let me think and be myself. I don't think friends solve loneliness at all. But if you feel they do, lots of people in sgf are willing to be friends.
Its when there is nothing to live for when loneliness strikes the hardest. Try to find something to do.
I am mostly a loner. Don't like crowds but like to have people around once in a while. I am weird, so don't take me as example.
I think the problem with me is my character. I am a honest person and I cannot stand fake people.
Its hard to find true friends. Its easy to have lots of people who hang around just for company and to fulfill social needs and some herd instinct.
I have come to accept I am a loner. Not much of a talker. Hard worker and no nonsense person who really deliver value. Apparently, I live in th wrong country in the wrong century and in the wrong field. Because in sg, only people who make use of other people and network socially, do the social chit chat to "know" the boss better get to climb.
Anyways, I like to keep my life uncomplicated
finally, got find someone who has the same exact mindset as me liao.
everytime i see people get along so well with one another, it turns out that they're actually networking for their own benefits, not because they really "click" with each other, as in "real true friends").
sigh....sometimes i wonder if SG itself is the problem....but then, i think perhaps in other countries, it's the same as well, since people will always be people.
u are a girl, right? i know of some SG guys who have 0 friends but never seen a SG girls with 0 friends, because SG girls here are all like factory-produced biscuits with lots of herd instinct in them; if they're not happy with a group of friends, they still die-die stick with them as they're afraid of being "seen alone". that's why i always admire girls who eat alone at hawker stalls/coffee chops during lunch hours. sigh......
sometimes, i also feel very disillusioned with life.....it's like, selfish people tend to get more popular while those honest, overly-kind people always get "outcasted" and taken for granted.
so far, you're the first person i've met in SG who is almost identical to me! LOL!
these few weeks, i've come to the realization that i'm not 100% normal like the average guy on the street, and i find that i feel a lot better when i accept that fact. it's like "you're not normal, so stop trying to be normal".
what u do on weekends? i spend most of the day playing xBox and enjoying the quiet afternoon and embarking on my own personal venture/project when night falls. -
haha nikar2 and mistyblue.. we are sooooo alike haha. something abt these forums are that we can find ppl similar in character to ourselves,and find comfort from within, knowing that ppl like us do exist..
way cool
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real fri ... don't need everyday talk online, sms, call and go out every weekend ?Originally posted by Jimi_Goh:As in those you contact everyday, talk online, sms, call and go out every weekend.
my contact not many? just 4 real friends ba.... the usual 1 i talk with.... yea i am lonely i guess :p cos sometime i also go exercise alone though i got 1fri we always plan to go jogging,swimming 1.
last time,i go sch... always kanna bully when my friend nv come ... hmmm haha now think of it also funny
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1 or 2 nia
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(kb24)
haha nikar2 and mistyblue.. we are sooooo alike haha. something abt these forums are that we can find ppl similar in character to ourselves,and find comfort from within, knowing that ppl like us do exist..
ha ha, i'm glad that in SG, there are still a handful of people like me.
way cool
for some reason, i always have nothing much to "connect" with people.......haiz...i feel like a real alien sometimes. -
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x2.Originally posted by TycoPsycho:0 oso
true frens hard to find nowadays
when u tot u have 1, u have none.... -
i will start to observe them...Originally posted by Nikar2:(mistyblue)
WHOA......COOL JIE-JIE!!!!!!!
finally, got find someone who has the same exact mindset as me liao.
everytime i see people get along so well with one another, it turns out that they're actually networking for their own benefits, not because they really "click" with each other, as in "real true friends").
sigh....sometimes i wonder if SG itself is the problem....but then, i think perhaps in other countries, it's the same as well, since people will always be people.
u are a girl, right? i know of some SG guys who have 0 friends but never seen a SG girls with 0 friends, because SG girls here are all like factory-produced biscuits with lots of herd instinct in them; if they're not happy with a group of friends, they still die-die stick with them as they're afraid of being "seen alone". that's why i always admire girls who eat alone at hawker stalls/coffee chops during lunch hours. sigh......
sometimes, i also feel very disillusioned with life.....it's like, selfish people tend to get more popular while those honest, overly-kind people always get "outcasted" and taken for granted.
so far, you're the first person i've met in SG who is almost identical to me! LOL!
these few weeks, i've come to the realization that i'm not 100% normal like the average guy on the street, and i find that i feel a lot better when i accept that fact. it's like "you're not normal, so stop trying to be normal".
what u do on weekends? i spend most of the day playing xBox and enjoying the quiet afternoon and embarking on my own personal venture/project when night falls.
yeah... when ur that person who is overly kind, too honest and always outcasted, and u realise it... u will be crying every now and then.... not because of girl, but cuz of the feeling that u feel betrayed, u feel inferior and so on........ haiz............
and yeah, why do the selfish ppl always get more and more popular, why cant god be more active......... haiz, god.......... -
none.
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maybe 5 or 6?
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0.. Like what mistyblue, nikar2 and kb24.. Hmm.. The list keeps on getting longer.
Is it that necessary or important to "network"?? -
ER i got about 10 liddats bahhs but i dont really go out with them...Well there is a way we communicate of course but then have to agree mystee no nid to contact everyday. =)Originally posted by mystee:real frnz dont hv to contact everyday...
i only have one close & real frnz.. -
frenz many, but real frenz... me, myself & I
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Wahhhhh! Sgforums place for loners like us huh?
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got 92 frens , but only 5 ppl i trust la 80% max. only the girl i like 90% hhaa .. is realli hard to trust a stranger or friend 100%
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perfect way to describe the situation..i dont seem to be able to connect to people well also..
hmm maybe we should try to change it,instead of taking it as what we are supposed to be like and maybe end up having more friends?
ahh but that's just all talk..let's see what the future holds..! -
Reminds me some 4 Chinese words quoted by someone, which best describe situation faced by many here, including me.
ÓôÃƶøÖÕ - Yu(4) Men(4) Er(2) Zhong(1) -
sian 1/2. I also 0. I'm only happy when i'm with my family.
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i am not even with my family.Originally posted by Thomas300:sian 1/2. I also 0. I'm only happy when i'm with my family.
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Sg forums loners should combine! wont be loners anymore
