Can 1k month guy get SG wife?
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problem is, not every ger in sg is looking for fine posh place to dine. not every ger wan tiffany and co. not every ger wants a landed property. there are some, but not all.
if a guy failed to get a wife, despite 3k, it's gers problem.
if a guy failed to get a wife, due to 1K, it's his problem.
why blame it on the gers for their expectation?
imagine u noe a vvvv ugly ger, + vvv fat, she willing to be with u, u wan?
u dunwan, then she will say, u v high expectation.
i dun encourage blaming the gers if the problem is, guys themselves can't barely even survive with their own pay. u can't live on love alone, do u?
at least u can see snobbish's expectation, which is really reasonable. -
ya, if a guy willing to become, i'm sure many gers (>30yo) is willing to marry him. but how many guys can put down their pride?Originally posted by rooki:Aiyoh...wanna be house husband not ambition meh?
Taking care of and nurturing the next generation is hard work you know! Also not to mention taking charge of the cleanliness of the abode.
put it bluntly,
if you earn only 1k, ur pride (in marriage/career) are near worthless to upkeep. -
Counting my Saluki to hunt food for me when I;m old
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Me earning 1.5k.
My gf of 5 years earning 4k.
Dunno how to get married.
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Originally posted by extrinsic:ya, if a guy willing to become, i'm sure many gers (>30yo) is willing to marry him. but how many guys can put down their pride?
put it bluntly,
if you earn only 1k, ur pride (in marriage/career) are near worthless to upkeep.
just remember wad i wanted to add on:
if u earn only 1k, u sld not have any expectation on the gers u marry.
i'm sure there are lots of vvv on the shelf ger waiting to get married and support their husband. but those are gers u wldnt even take a second look and regret even taking the first look. -
Oh come on, how bad can they look?Originally posted by extrinsic:Originally posted by extrinsic:
ya, if a guy willing to become, i'm sure many gers (>30yo) is willing to marry him. but how many guys can put down their pride?
put it bluntly,
if you earn only 1k, ur pride (in marriage/career) are near worthless to upkeep.
just remember wad i wanted to add on:
if u earn only 1k, u sld not have any expectation on the gers u marry.
i'm sure there are lots of vvv on the shelf ger waiting to get married and support their husband. but those are gers u wldnt even take a second look and regret even taking the first look.
What's most important is the MIND and HEART. -
gender equality is a SHAM
It has always been......and both ways that too. -
well cheer up guys...the world is overpopulated anyway doing a good deed
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Can get Vietnam "wife" or China "wife", wife can work in Geylang, then the income will no longer be $1k, income will be at least $10k.
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Some how, here the reply is like no money no talk basis ... is all the girl care for is to live a comfortable life? 25 years ago, I wasn't earning much too hardly today $1.5 k standard. ... my wife pay is slightly higher than mine but still low .. we were registered and only go through customary marriage when I stike 4D ( pathetic) right? My wife knew I was poor but she chose to marry me. One of the saddest moment I never forget was, when my daughter was about 3 years old and she craved for durain. We were left with $10.00 but we decided to use that $10 to buy the one durain for our girl. Such was the poverty stage we were in .. still we were happy together and we work hard.. We started going oversea holidays, buying new car etc a few years later ... then recession set in and the last and I lost my job and so do my wife ... we still stick together and we worked together..
Look TS, you have to wait for the right girl to come. If you are rich and girls come to you... but when you are down, will she be there for you.. if dispite you are poor and the girl stick to you, you know she will be there when you needed it.. you need to meet more girl and you have to stop asking if girl marry you with a 1k salary ... you should look for girl who want to build a home and not one with home ready, in this instant ... all the best to you ... oh... next week is my 25 years marriage with me wife ... for your infor, I cannot afford to buy her any present and I do not expect any from her too .. cause we are now starting to recover from the last depression... -
I really pity TS but then this is the reality of life.
How i wish i can have a brother who is handsome-looking enough to carry our family line but sadly i dun have.
Y bother to marry someone who cannot suffer through thick and thin with u. When u are rich, ur gf can be so nice to u. But when no $$, she can even kick ur ass.
this is the only reason y finding someone who love u is so hard. Therefore, even if u are rich, act poor first then c got any girl still like u a not. At least u know she really likes u and not ur money. After which, reward her with what u have as u have found ur destined one -
all i can say is love can keep people together but without money to survive, these people die together.
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Cute doggie.Originally posted by Catknight:Counting my Saluki to hunt food for me when I;m old
But do you know where do dogs hunt for food in an urban jungle?
Whether it's live or dead, I would think that the food is disgusting. -
income and lifestyles are subjectable to character & personality profiles of individuals... And I believe there are still many SG girls who would marry guys who make less than 1k/mth. It's a matter of compromise in expenses and lifestyle wat... And most importantly, it's the choice of the girl; and you should know better... it's almost imossible to understand what really goes on in their heads...!
the income issue is not really a problem la... something that disturbs me more is the increase in angmoh-singaporean marriages/relationships these days... My question is: Do SG girls actually prefer foreign flavours so much more that they find local guys boring...??!? And if yes, then how did they derived this perception and get so white-washed? -
It's a sight hound that hunt gazalles, rabbits and pigeons...so finding live meat no problem, the problem is cutting and cookingOriginally posted by maurizio13:Cute doggie.
But do you know where do dogs hunt for food in an urban jungle?
Whether it's live or dead, I would think that the food is disgusting.
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be a lecturer at poly.
mine kip sayin he headhunted by this company la wat la. 90 bucks per hr is peanuts la. bring home arnd 10k.
so this dec.
he get 3 mths bonus dec pay etc all arnd 50k.
and i thot become engineer bring in 5k gud enuf oledi...
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sign on army and do duties for others for money
sure more than 1.5k -
Think it's just me and saluki in a tent hunting for a living if oil hits 500USD
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Ya ... got one real life example , guy earn 1.5 K , wife 2.8 K , but when they met about 10 years ago, their pay almost similar somehow the wife has progressed, the guy pay 10 years never change, interestingly this guy no career and is not handsome but wife is pretty and sweet , some guys have all the luck !
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There are good Singaporean guys around but all I know of are married or about to get married.Originally posted by raja gopal:income and lifestyles are subjectable to character & personality profiles of individuals... And I believe there are still many SG girls who would marry guys who make less than 1k/mth. It's a matter of compromise in expenses and lifestyle wat... And most importantly, it's the choice of the girl; and you should know better... it's almost imossible to understand what really goes on in their heads...!
the income issue is not really a problem la... something that disturbs me more is the increase in angmoh-singaporean marriages/relationships these days... My question is: Do SG girls actually prefer foreign flavours so much more that they find local guys boring...??!? And if yes, then how did they derived this perception and get so white-washed?
Why do you care who goes out with who? As long as two persons love each other - who is to say anything else? -
Why dont you just sign on to army at least more than that 1.5k pathetic pay.
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I'm good, but I'm still studying, so not getting married yetOriginally posted by fymk:There are good Singaporean guys around but all I know of are married or about to get married.
Why do you care who goes out with who? As long as two persons love each other - who is to say anything else?
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unless u make thm dua ba do...
even if dua ba do..
one day will GO.
not u run away thn is ur wife run away. -
i am female lehOriginally posted by extrinsic:yup, the problem here is, 1K is really too low. It's not gers' expectation or what. It's your problem, not hers.
if u say 3k, then i wld say it's ger problem -
IF i only earn $1000 / mth in future, i think i'd rather not get married. just live alone jiu can le. why make others suffer with u?
but thats impossible la.