How to tell parents?

• seotiblizzard

  30 Oct 08, 23:49

  Originally posted by Master -_-:

  
  the bad news..

  I've gotten my gf pregnant..

   

  WTF.....

  but the good news..at least i'm not gay when you thought i was

   

   

  

  
  

• noahnoah

  30 Oct 08, 23:50

   

  nvm dun worry

  govt encourage young couple to have

  babies

  You did a good job

  get ready to rev your baby package!

• Shotgun

  31 Oct 08, 00:08

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

   

  nvm dun worry

  govt encourage young couple to have

  babies

  You did a good job

  get ready to rev your baby package!

  I think you've got a winning formula here!

  Talk to her parents about the benefits of having the baby-package thing!  I'm sure they'll agree that its a good thing to get... 

  And thats when you drop the bomb!

• noahnoah

  31 Oct 08, 00:09

  Originally posted by Shotgun:

  I think you've got a winning formula here!

  Talk to her parents about the benefits of having the baby-package thing!  I'm sure they'll agree that its a good thing to get... 

  And thats when you drop the bomb!

  
  if all fails

  can find the minister to explain

  also

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:10

  Originally posted by Warcounter:

  got an idea. disown both ur parents den wun tio family dai ji

   

  siao then i get my funds from where..

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:11

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

   

  nvm dun worry

  govt encourage young couple to have

  babies

  You did a good job

  get ready to rev your baby package!

  tml then see bah zzz

• BrUtUs

  31 Oct 08, 00:13

  Originally posted by youyayu:

  that my gf got baby
  
  And how to tell her parents?

  
  propose to her liao anot?

  told ur parents liao?

  once she give ok then u talk to ur parents in private tell them ur intentions... after they give blessing then u make a give her parents n do a formal call and tell them u intend to marry their daughter... then tell them abt the baby... get ur parents to help u with the formal wedding stuff...

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:15

  i confirm they go open year 1988 whine and shout that they are going to be granparents..

  problem is with my gf parents

   

• BrUtUs

  31 Oct 08, 00:18

  Originally posted by youyayu:

  i confirm they go open year 1988 whine and shout that they are going to be granparents..

  problem is with my gf parents

   

  
  no matter wat they still hv to let u marry their daughter... dun worry... tell their ur intentions b4 the not so good news 1st...

• Detached

  31 Oct 08, 00:19

  fucking troll.

  if you think pregnancy is a joke, fuck off and die.

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:20

  Originally posted by Detached:

  fucking troll.

  if you think pregnancy is a joke, fuck off and die.

  who u talking to

• limpper

  31 Oct 08, 00:21

  hmm,. ts still very young arh? or already at around 18-21?

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:22

  Originally posted by limpper:

  hmm,. ts still very young arh? or already at around 18-21?

  23-10-1988

• ChoCoChips

  31 Oct 08, 00:24

  huh.

  i tot u ahem ahem a few days ago oni?

  so fast know liao meh!? o.0

• corebooster

  31 Oct 08, 00:27

  Originally posted by youyayu:

  studying.. but got stable passive income

  
  ur income is from yourself or parents?

  if possible, when u finish studying, get a job immediately.

  u have to think, when u have a child. its not between u and ur 'wife' only. its the gynae cost, the tonics, u have to be there for your wife, there is the pre-natal and post-natal stress, she will have emotional needs/changes. you need to be there for her.

  and then, u go hospital for birth, wards, all cost a bomb.

  a gynae usually will quote u 2-4k for a complete package of regular checkup from 12weeks onwards til child birth(natural) which extra cost will incur for caeseran(hope i spell correct)

  im nt trying 2 stress ya, but there are costs to have a baby. then when the baby give birth, milk/pampers/medical etc.

  break the news the earlier the better. no matter wad, you are the child of your parents. even they dun approve, they have to support you.

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:27

  Originally posted by ChoCoChips:

  huh.

  i tot u ahem ahem a few days ago oni?

  so fast know liao meh!? o.0

  i also feel wierd wierd one... but ppl tell me 2 weeks enough to know liao..

  and its been more then 2 weeks ma

• corebooster

  31 Oct 08, 00:28

  n bro. wedding dinner/wedding photos etc shd not be ur priority.

  u can get married for less den 50dollars. just get registered.

   

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:29

  Originally posted by corebooster:

  
  ur income is from yourself or parents?

  if possible, when u finish studying, get a job immediately.

  u have to think, when u have a child. its not between u and ur 'wife' only. its the gynae cost, the tonics, u have to be there for your wife, there is the pre-natal and post-natal stress, she will have emotional needs/changes. you need to be there for her.

  and then, u go hospital for birth, wards, all cost a bomb.

  a gynae usually will quote u 2-4k for a complete package of regular checkup from 12weeks onwards til child birth(natural) which extra cost will incur for caeseran(hope i spell correct)

  im nt trying 2 stress ya, but there are costs to have a baby. then when the baby give birth, milk/pampers/medical etc.

  break the news the earlier the better. no matter wad, you are the child of your parents. even they dun approve, they have to support you.

  they buy me condo, car, shophouses

   

  shophouse/condo rent out

  so i got a passive income..

  parents give me an additional 2k for me and my gf per month meaning 1k each

  so i don't think got problem.. just that her parents side.. they are like quite strict

• limpper

  31 Oct 08, 00:32

  Originally posted by youyayu:

  23-10-1988

  oh, you 20, your gf how old?

• ChoCoChips

  31 Oct 08, 00:33

  u tell ur parents first.

  see how they respond

  then after that u and ur parents can go visit her parents.

  this kind got ur parents help u should be easier to manage.

• corebooster

  31 Oct 08, 00:33

  money side, with what you mention, i believe should be no issue.

  Tell the parents truthfully. take the picture of the womb and show it to her parents.

  tell them the necessary and u want to wed her daughter.

  dinner n stuff can be discussed after the birth of the child.

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:34

  Originally posted by limpper:

  oh, you 20, your gf how old?

  20 - 1

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:34

  Originally posted by ChoCoChips:

  u tell ur parents first.

  see how they respond

  then after that u and ur parents can go visit her parents.

  this kind got ur parents help u should be easier to manage.

  her parents @ taiwan leh

• toyota-corolla

  31 Oct 08, 00:35

  I'm kinda waiting for tomorrow.

• youyayu

  31 Oct 08, 00:36

  Originally posted by corebooster:

  money side, with what you mention, i believe should be no issue.

  Tell the parents truthfully. take the picture of the womb and show it to her parents.

  tell them the necessary and u want to wed her daughter.

  dinner n stuff can be discussed after the birth of the child.

  okay..