About Plationic Friendships
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
You pro ma.. we noobs.
Besides , is she desirable ? U often go out with her ? She got bf liaw ma ? Single ? =D
anyways.. teach me the ways that is easy n not hard. kekeke
once in a while
got b'day or something then go out. or occasionally meet up to go out
i meet her as much as i meet up some of my guy friends
no bf. wife quality.
u all think too much, life is simple, don't make it complicated.
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I believe in platonic friendships. I go out one on one with guy friends. We plan on going out one-on-one just for dinner, chill out, or movies.. whatever..
Don't think too much into whether he has crossed the line or not. Just go and enjoy the friendship.
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
once in a while
got b'day or something then go out. or occasionally meet up to go out
i meet her as much as i meet up some of my guy friends
no bf. wife quality.
u all think too much, life is simple, don't make it complicated.
The whole point is life is just not that simple. Its simple if one have no desire , no purpose , no need to chase dreams , girls, cars , wealth..i dunno la. I always wanted to see things as simple as it can but always slapped me in the face n remind me of how complicated things get.
anyways, bday etc plutonic relationship is alrite, but is she desirable ? there is always the chance that overtime feelings get deep. Because through time can u really know the person, n vice versa. Unless you know the person too well or she does you n just dun see u desirable at all. No possible attraction of qualities.
maybe its simple.. just that i cant see it as simple as you. damn
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please lah. why make things so complicated.
girls will come
u work hard, money will come
money come, girls will come
i know her since 13 - 14. we didn't start hanging out till we were 18-19.
not everything must have attraction, we meet up to chit chat. if u think with your dick then that's why its so complicated.
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
please lah. why make things so complicated.
girls will come
u work hard, money will come
money come, girls will come
i know her since 13 - 14. we didn't start hanging out till we were 18-19.
not everything must have attraction, we meet up to chit chat. if u think with your dick then that's why its so complicated.
ah, thinking with the dumbstick. never a good thing.
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Originally posted by av98m:
ah, thinking with the dumbstick. never a good thing.
seriously if u have a girl friend
and u start to keep thinking about banging her. tell me how platonic can it get?
i'm just saying, don't think about the banging and it'll be platonic. that's the whole idea anyway, unless one thinks about banging his guy friends too.
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Yes they will all come with all the money ,the talent. No doubt about it. Which will bring us to another question of whether she likes u for the moolah.. or just you ?See the predicament ? Or i think too much again.
But it may not be so for the girl to also always remain in such plutonic relationship with you. Thats just my experience. So i will think too much.
I always tell myself to think with the big brain and all will b good.
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then don't find a girl lah
no stress, no burden
there are so many ways to work round "problems"
girls don't wanna hang out with u as a friend if u start thinking about banging them.
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
once in a while
got b'day or something then go out. or occasionally meet up to go out
i meet her as much as i meet up some of my guy friends
no bf. wife quality.
u all think too much, life is simple, don't make it complicated.
Unfortunately, people are complicated.
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Unfortunately, people are complicated.
so what? is that an excuse?
or do u even bother to make your life simpler and happier?
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As if they will know. unless u so blatantly try to drug them or make them drunk n making ur move when they are in an intoxicated level etc...
Friends yes , i am just saying overtime. Keep hanging around overtime one of them gonna make a move, you realise , u start to distance yourself. So you meet new girl friends , then minimum contact , then becomes frequent , the cycle repeats itself.
Well, i dun think i have any female friends since the primary school days that still hang around. Even i met my old secondary friend, met up.. overtime starts to fall in love. Fuck!
Anyways , yeah. Yes. there are so many ways to work around 'problems' .
So i guess it aint so simply for me afterall.
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hello
platonic relationship, why are u falling for them?
just think of that girl as a guy. that is as platonic as it can get.
u meet new guy friends, u gonna pang seh your other guy friend?
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mmm.. by discussing more deeply may mean one think too much. By NOT thinking about it at all seems..simple a solution.
I wonder where is the middleground in this. hahaha
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but a girl is not a guy. lol..
Imagine a girl thinks of you as a girl. damn.. hahahha
sorry.. that came in funny in my head.
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it is platonic
don't think about "i may fall in love with them in future"
if u start thinking that way, it will never be platonic
easiest way u can "con" yourself is to treat the girl like u would treat a guy.
things i make exceptions for her as a girl are :
i don't spew vulgarities, i don't talk about football, i don't crack dirty jokes
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then u will never be in a platonic relationship if u are unable to place the girl in your guy circle.
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Platonic Relationships and Love Relationships are mutually exclusive..what's so difficult about that?
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the difficulty is that people use platonic to jump to love
which makes it not even platonic in the first place
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then it defeats the purpose with a fuckbuddy
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I have this friend who is really pretty. She is very popular with the guys. And yes, she is single so she gets a lot of attention from guys.
She will occassionally go out with a guy friend for coffee movie or lunch/dinner just to hang out and chill. Nothing wrong with being a buddy to a guy friend.
Problem is, she is quite buddy friendly with every guy and quite the touch feely type.
I have told her that she might give some of her guy friends the wrong impresson if she is so buddy friendly (with the buddy touching) with almost ALL guys. She just shrugs and says she is just being friendly.
So guys out there, when a girl is touchy feely with you, it might not mean she wants to be more than just being friends with you.
Really.
It's just a platonic friendship kind of thing.
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*carrasses her*
i'm jsut being friendly too.. girl friend. Oh behave!
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
hello
platonic relationship, why are u falling for them?
just think of that girl as a guy. that is as platonic as it can get.
u meet new guy friends, u gonna pang seh your other guy friend?
Of cos it usually starts with platonic frienships. But over time, there is a possibility that one party may start to develop feelings for the other. n if the feelings are not mutual, there goes the friendship. -
if he develop feeling, than what you want him to do?
hide the feeling forever, so you will not feel awkward?
or let him express himself, so he will move on?
but since you are single, why not just give him the chanceto impress you?
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Of cos it usually starts with platonic frienships. But over time, there is a possibility that one party may start to develop feelings for the other. n if the feelings are not mutual, there goes the friendship.feelings not mutual even at the platonic stage
then platonic smlj?