True Love is built on a foundation of money
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Singapore is competitive....many and even if u dun like it is forced into a rat race...the first impression a urban slut would see is the "brand" or better or bluntly known as 5 or 7Cs....its ever increasing expectations in the name of "prosperity", love" and what have u....
this seeped and has deeply influenced how we think about a lot of things around us...including love, friends, work and life etc....that prime motivator that alienates or "bond" or "ally" with one another for the self proclaimed urbanites' "common good" and "true love".....
it is so deeply rooted that its hard to think whether its money motivated or pure love....to possess a person out of "true" love may not be seen as "true" love by another....
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Singapore is competitive....many and even if u dun like it is forced into a rat race...the first impression a urban slut would see is the "brand" or better or bluntly known as 5 or 7Cs....its ever increasing expectations in the name of "prosperity", love" and what have u....
this seeped and has deeply influenced how we think about a lot of things around us...including love, friends, work and life etc....that prime motivator that alienates or "bond" or "ally" with one another for the self proclaimed urbanites' "common good" and "true love".....
it is so deeply rooted that its hard to think whether its money motivated or pure love....to possess a person out of "true" love may not be seen as "true" love by another....
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That's the true reason why we need to learn to build assets for ourselves and eventually seeking financial freedom to do what we always wants to do in life. Its with assets that people will classed one as being successful.
Some of the highest income earner in the world relies on a business concept and you can read from them. Namely people will Donald T, Warren B, Robert Kiyosaki, etc. They will tell you what is a real business model that can make you rich and wealthy.
I've read them and I've witness some true accounts of people making millions a year and do what they like at their own time.
I myself have embarked onto the same and hope that a day will come whereby I can be like that an am sure that with some hardwork will be able to achieve.
Then will I have what I can call Health with Wealth - and Live a Real Life for myself and family.
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the word "true" becomes more relative and distant as far as our modern commercial world takes us...it becomes a feeble star..its there but weakening..
more families are fighting for inheritances as never before....brothers and sisters turned foes....what is love?
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hi im a forty yr old guy who has a interest in me ,a thirty yr old gal from indo ,ive got not much money or educ. but she is edc. degree gd position n ive got 3 kids widowed she not married bfore , she says she loves me n wants to marry me im not sure what is she gettin out of this ,she is losing out ,do u think its true love or just for the sake of me a sporean n she gettin a good life out of it .maybe its just a infatuation temp.i dont lose anythin if i marry her in any way .need a piece of advice from u all .i ve known her for about three months ,thks
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结婚生å�是有钱人的玩艺.
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
Orh...den I love my mom lei...SO I lust after her!!?!?
ARGHHHHH
OMG!
I must clean my mind!
lol
Hahaha +1Anyway Parn, dont need so materialistic lar.... at the end of the day must be happy...you only live once. If the guy no $ but with him feel happy can le... unless its only the materialistic things that make you happy lar.
Kind Regards
Genie
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Originally posted by Genie99a:
Hahaha +1Anyway Parn, dont need so materialistic lar.... at the end of the day must be happy...you only live once. If the guy no $ but with him feel happy can le... unless its only the materialistic things that make you happy lar.
Kind Regards
Genie
Such guys does not exist.Besides, humans do fail one another constantly.
Materialistic things can never upset me.
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i remember a song lyrics..."love, love, love...what can i say ay ay ay ay....."
lol
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Originally posted by parn:
Such guys does not exist.Besides, humans do fail one another constantly.
Materialistic things can never upset me.
how do u know such guys dun exist if u dun try to find hard enough?
i can said ur just plain lazy to make effort to look for one, even if u want to and fail to find the mr right, cling on to materialism?
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Originally posted by kengkia:
how do u know such guys dun exist if u dun try to find hard enough?
i can said ur just plain lazy to make effort to look for one, even if u want to and fail to find the mr right, cling on to materialism?
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Originally posted by parn:
You good, come here and tell me off.dun tell me things like "Why must i tell you how hard i tried", i dun need to know, but just search your conscience ask youself whether u tried hard enough or not? How hard is your hard?
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i do not know the whole issue
but simply my dua sen thoughts, if true love is based on money foundation, problems over money is going to start surfacing once e couple starts forming a family especially.
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parn are you agel7030's clone? seems like angel7030 not around lately
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might as well say i am parnie's clone better since i was not here til today..
dun worry they are definitely two different persons...
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Originally posted by sbst275:
i do not know the whole issue
but simply my dua sen thoughts, if true love is based on money foundation, problems over money is going to start surfacing once e couple starts forming a family especially.
Actually the direction that you are approaching this is wrong. Since forming a family requires more than purely love, you need some money to buy a house/have babies, buy your furniture, plan your wedding etc.
However like i said, it is how big money is to the person itself. So moral of the story is, be contented.
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Actually the direction that you are approaching this is wrong. Since forming a family requires more than purely love, you need some money to buy a house/have babies, buy your furniture, plan your wedding etc.
However like i said, it is how big money is to the person itself. So moral of the story is, be contented.
then why are there couples who aren't tat well off still living happy w/ their little ones in their simple habitat possibly living w/ their parents.watever it is, it's all based on e couple.
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Originally posted by sbst275:
then why are there couples who aren't tat well off still living happy w/ their little ones in their simple habitat possibly living w/ their parents.watever it is, it's all based on e couple.
Thats because they are contented isnt it ? For some, even living in a island might not be enough..
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all we know is that divorce rates are on the rise....and singles are multiplying....with gays and lesbians....all added to the messy situation.....and govt are desperate for more babies and pushy on TV to get more people married....improvise subsidies and failing ice breakers campaigns ....real headache for them now....
i can "hear" the ruler says:"to hell with my people.....talk so much and spend so much money and see not much babies...damn them"
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what is the problem here....aiyo......the system they built has influenced all our lives and rocked the very foundation of feelings for one another at its very fundamental....
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the social side effects and paradox of the so called "Singapore Success"....
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pro-feminist policies coincides with the rise of divorce and singles
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Originally posted by kengkia:
how do u know such guys dun exist if u dun try to find hard enough?
i can said ur just plain lazy to make effort to look for one, even if u want to and fail to find the mr right, cling on to materialism?
What makes you think I need to try hard to look for guys?
Just because you have sent me many PMs, doesn't means you already know me enough to tell me off.
That's the problem with you guys, assume too much about girls until you are so full of yourselves.
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Originally posted by kengkia:
dun tell me things like "Why must i tell you how hard i tried", i dun need to know, but just search your conscience ask youself whether u tried hard enough or not? How hard is your hard?
This question has never cross my mind and I also don't plan to feed your mind with answers.What have you done to contribute to my topic?
If you have done nothing to contribute but quick to pick out one of my comments to murder me in my topic, then your posts are truly worthless in my topic and aren't you trying to troll in my topic?