True Love is built on a foundation of money
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Just admit the truth that guys watched too much pornographic movies and their attitude towards girls have been degraded.
Is it so difficult for you guys to admit that you will be treated better by girls if you have a high earning powah or sitting on a foundation of money?
And how many guys out there can tell you this lie that it is easier for them to find true love when they are poor compared to people who are more well-off than themselves ... without feeling ashamed of themselves?
Tell me, is it easier for me to change guys opinions about girls or is it easier for me to convince them that they do have a good chance to find True Love for themselves if they increases their earning power.
Maybe guys are just after True Sex and not True Love.
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Originally posted by parn:
Just admit the truth that guys watched too much pornographic movies and their attitude towards girls have been degraded.
Is it so difficult for you guys to admit that you will be treated better by girls if you have a high earning powah or sitting on a foundation of money?
And how many guys out there can tell you this lie that it is easier for them to find true love when they are poor compared to people who are more well-off than themselves ... without feeling ashamed of themselves?
Tell me, is it easier for me to change guys opinions about girls or is it easier for me to convince them that they do have a good chance to find True Love for themselves if they increases their earning power.
Maybe guys are just after True Sex and not True Love.
The highlighted points in your quote is your bias, whether or not is related to your personal experience or views.
I dont deny money makes people attractive.
Why not take a look at the link below first before posting any comments.
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Originally posted by parn:
Just admit the truth that guys watched too much pornographic movies and their attitude towards girls have been degraded.
Is it so difficult for you guys to admit that you will be treated better by girls if you have a high earning powah or sitting on a foundation of money?
And how many guys out there can tell you this lie that it is easier for them to find true love when they are poor compared to people who are more well-off than themselves ... without feeling ashamed of themselves?
Tell me, is it easier for me to change guys opinions about girls or is it easier for me to convince them that they do have a good chance to find True Love for themselves if they increases their earning power.
Maybe guys are just after True Sex and not True Love.
i agree with you really 100%but that cannot change the fact that women get orgasssm when i send an email out to them i offer them a pay rate of sgd$50 per hour just for me to take photographs of them. daman i shouldn't have done that. now they all knwo and all wants me to pay them. see how cheap that is. but pls don;t flame me i agree with your point you have your ttruths and guys have ours.
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Originally posted by TTFU:
The highlighted points in your quote is your bias, whether or not is related to your personal experience or views.
I dont deny money makes people attractive.
Why not take a look at the link below first before posting any comments.
come one we have to agrree with her because its true when you flash the money everything changes. even if not the changes should be activated directly or indirectly to anything financial or money related. she has her own truths in arguments as such. read the wordsMONEY MAKES PEOPLE ATTRACTIVE.
they sure will get high if you buy her that guceee bag on display
well after all if you can;t then she can find another one who can.
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Originally posted by TTFU:
The highlighted points in your quote is your bias, whether or not is related to your personal experience or views.
I dont deny money makes people attractive.
Why not take a look at the link below first before posting any comments.
Opinions are always biased whether you like it or not.It takes more than just courage to share your own personal but biased opinions to many people, you will need to have your own opinion first before you can decide whether or not to share them out.
It's easy to become a saint and put on your righteous mask and tell yourself that you know this is biased and the public is not going to accept it and you should be the person to shoot it down and gain some righteous points for your own reputation/image.
Yes, exploit on what I have shared if that's what you would like to do or have been feeding on such opportunities throughout your lives.
But ... one day if you decide not to be such a person, do feel free to share your real opinions of what you feel towards the topic.
Just don't expect me to believe your righteous mask like everyone else, cos it just won't work on me when I can see through it.
Ohh...I do not have a perfect and flawless character/personality, so I'm not able to obey your stereotyping rule. Don't be naive and go bring out all your rule books about life and try to corner me into your tiny box of morals.
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Originally posted by parn:
Opinions are always biased whether you like it or not.It takes more than just courage to share your own personal but biased opinions to many people, you will need to have your own opinion first before you can decide whether or not to share them out.
It's easy to become a saint and put on your righteous mask and tell yourself that you know this is biased and the public is not going to accept it and you should be the person to shoot it down and gain some righteous points for your own reputation/image.
Yes, exploit on what I have shared if that's what you would like to do or have been feeding on such opportunities throughout your lives.
But ... one day if you decide not to be such a person, do feel free to share your real opinions of what you feel towards the topic.
Just don't expect me to believe your righteous mask like everyone else, cos it just won't work on me when I can see through it.
Ohh...I do not have a perfect and flawless character/personality, so I'm not able to obey your stereotyping rule. Don't be naive and go bring out all your rule books about life and try to corner me into your tiny box of morals.
Actually no need courage to share opinions. i just need an internet connection and an interface can oredi. also when i type what people see as saintly rightseous actually i don;t mean it, what i type are typcially the underlying truth which they outwarddly show. one day when i have more important things to do than typing on a keyboard that always spoilt not working i will not bother to even share anything at all. it wasn't a mask i wearing, its me. the last statement about you not having any flaws why that's the truth. in fact i am trying to start a flaming session because in the wee hours of morning nothing better to do not replies yet from those guys with cammella and mollers email so i try working my things here
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How much is high income?
It's relative and subjective.
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Originally posted by dragg:
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i have a friend who is neither a high income earner, rich, good looking or smart. in short he is average. but he is married and now have 3 kids. he is not even 40 yet.
ever wonder why some people can just get married without all the fuss. but most cant!!
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i once asked my friend how he managed to get married and have 3 kids so 'easily'. he said 'why think and worry so much? just go with your feelings.'
its because of your character. its your character which determines who and what kind you tend to attract and who and what kind you tend to choose.
men always blame women and vice versa. have you ever seriously asked yourself if its because you expected too much?
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Originally posted by dragg:
i have a friend who is neither a high income earner, rich, good looking or smart. in short he is average. but he is married and now have 3 kids. he is not even 40 yet.
ever wonder why some people can just get married without all the fuss. but most cant!!
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i once asked my friend how he managed to get married and have 3 kids so 'easily'. he said 'why think and worry so much? just go with your feelings.'
its because of your character. its your character which determines who and what kind you tend to attract and who and what kind you tend to choose.
men always blame women and vice versa. have you ever seriously asked yourself if its because you expected too much?
character is one thing but actually its good to have your friend happy go lucky attitude, take things as it comes. but who knows marriage is not only 2 person's affair but rather some say its between two families. there may also be lots of problem at your friend's marriage just maybe people don;t see it outwardly. but maybe like what you wrong its happy go lucky, even if it means having to die just to make things work he will treat it like destiny.
really if roti prata and guccess bags are what they fancy probably outwardly modern but inside they just know to get a man, married not knowing what true love and happiness is. Humans smart evolved and intellegent as we seems are actually no better than part of life on earth.
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Paid love is built on a foundation of money la. When true love comes, your heart should react not your wallet. Money should be secondary.
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Thats the reason why divorce is a trend for young couples now. If you use money as a cushion to your marriage, your marriage is going to collapse la. My personal opinion.
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a lot of external factors that made these what they are today. money is indeed one important factor. event those not divroced alot are still not happy with their marriage. deept inside they know. its either one blindly happy and the other hidding his or her grunt. problems might not be as thin as the skin it seems.
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Originally posted by HeiHao:
Paid love is built on a foundation of money la. When true love comes, your heart should react not your wallet. Money should be secondary.
easier said than done. it may be one showing ture uncondifitonal love while the other actually still money face. -
Originally posted by HeiHao:
Thats the reason why divorce is a trend for young couples now. If you use money as a cushion to your marriage, your marriage is going to collapse la. My personal opinion.
Somebody finally making some sort of sense in a short n concise way.
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
Somebody finally making some sort of sense in a short n concise way.
i don;t really feel so, i see that as just another opinion. there are many underlying reasons to divorce. money is just one of them.but i happy really sometimes. it shows some old backward traditional thinking and upbringing of kids in the older days really trimup over the 'modern contemporary' ideas kids nowadays think they are heading towards.
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
i don;t really feel so, i see that as just another opinion. there are many underlying reasons to divorce. money is just one of them.but i happy really sometimes. it shows some old backward traditional thinking and upbringing of kids in the older days really trimup over the 'modern contemporary' ideas kids nowadays think they are heading towards.
Yes, opinions like assholes, everyones got one.
If you dont think so, bravo to you.
Of course money is just one of the factor. But the main point is, money as cushion to a marriage. You think you will be happy ? Or the wife equally as happy ? Come on. We are wealthy but we are not blind and stupid. They may be able to fool alot but not some.
We are moving towards an age where marriage is no longer sacred. Its more like a convenience. Driven by the materialistic ways. Many many factors involve this whole misconception of $$$$. Maybe to those with no money, they want it so bad they will sacrifice thier own principals. To be with a scum sucking maggot with money of course. Its like moving from a big fish to a bigger fish. All these girls are doing it. But if that is what they think it is, they will lose out in the long run.
Because, the baby factory will keep churning out hotter, younger more sexuallly predatous then the previous. You just cannot compete and compare. But of course, women like those may not even be able to think so far. Even if they did, they can only follow the money.
I mean all these damands . But what do we get ? Seriously. Sex ? Thats it ? LoL! I can get sex anytime anywhere I want. With money everything is possible. The only thing not possible is to buy those of strong willed in thier principals.
Why her ? What does she have ? If that is true love, that is NOT the love I want. I rather she love me who I am and not what I am. Too easy for what I am, but the questions is who you are.
We are witnessing gender issues. The so called equality of inequality. I am keeping my fingers crossed. And see what the future brings to those in this thread that really think highly of money in regards to love and marraige.
Their story, will be a lesson to us all.
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I have ONE question for guys who believe girls should like them for who they are and not what they can offer.
If she must likes you for for who you are, then WHY/WHAT makes you think you are better than her ex-bfs and past relationships?
People always compares, and you can say the same to compare your potential girls with all your ex-gfs and past relationships.
However, do not forget the rule of relationship is that you must fall in love with us first before we do. Because girls who falls in love with guys first are usually thought of as sluts and are probably after them with ulterior motive. Besides for that to happen, you must be really really really good and that's not possible.
Girls may not even like you even if you had shitload of money to offer them. Ready for True Love doesn't means you will find True Love.
Did I just hear alot of dreams that were smashed and broken by what I have wrote?
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Originally posted by HeiHao:
Thats the reason why divorce is a trend for young couples now. If you use money as a cushion to your marriage, your marriage is going to collapse la. My personal opinion.
That's because guys nowadays have a very warped attitude towards marriage and love.Unable to keep their women in love with them is the primary reason for divorce.
The rest are just excuses created by guys to get the righteous sympathy that they wanted.
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so parnie i ask you..if you married a rich guy and ten to twenty years down the road he's rendered a pauper from whatever reason. What will u do? leave him? that is assume that you two are about 40 to 50 yrs old. the linking factor money is gone what would u do for ya next surviving years? got think about that before?
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Originally posted by kengkia:
so parnie i ask you..if you married a rich guy and ten to twenty years down the road he's rendered a pauper from whatever reason. What will u do? leave him? that is assume that you two are about 40 to 50 yrs old. the linking factor money is gone what would u do for ya next surviving years? got think about that before?
Tell me why do you imagine a rich person can suddenly be poor in the future?Is this the common wish that poor people has for the rich nowadays?
The fact is, if poor people have the need to curse rich people to become poor, then maybe these green-eyed monsters need to wish other people better in order for them to get more blessings in their lives.
You want my answer? I will give you my answer. The fact is that I will do my best to support my husband, family and loved ones if that really happens in the future.
How about you? Will your future girlfriend or wife leaves you because you have lost your job due to retrenchment or being made redundant in the workforce when you are over 40+ years old in Singapore? What will you do then? How do you plan to substain true love when you can hardly maintain the living costs to keep your family fed and alive?
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Originally posted by parn:
I have ONE question for guys who believe girls should like them for who they are and not what they can offer.
If she must likes you for for who you are, then WHY/WHAT makes you think you are better than her ex-bfs and past relationships?
People always compares, and you can say the same to compare your potential girls with all your ex-gfs and past relationships.
However, do not forget the rule of relationship is that you must fall in love with us first before we do. Because girls who falls in love with guys first are usually thought of as sluts and are probably after them with ulterior motive. Besides for that to happen, you must be really really really good and that's not possible.
Girls may not even like you even if you had shitload of money to offer them. Ready for True Love doesn't means you will find True Love.
Did I just hear alot of dreams that were smashed and broken by what I have wrote?
The question is why, why must i always be better than her ex-boyF. Everyone is different in some way. If your parther is thinking about past relationship better that you, then he may not even truely like you.
Secondly you already contradicted yourself. First you say its a rule, then you say its a thought.
No seriously no dreams are gonna get shattered by you. People like eagle already summed up the thread in like 2 simple sentences.
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well parnie has a wraped mind...she even ask TS of a certain thread in Aunt Agony to take whatever shit coming from her mum and sis forever..
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How about you? Will your future girlfriend or wife leaves you because you have lost your job due to retrenchment or being made redundant in the workforce when you are over 40+ years old in Singapore? What will you do then? How do you plan to substain true love when you can hardly maintain the living costs to keep your family fed and alive?
One needs to plan early and have a system/way/method of generating cash even without being employed by others.
1) Buy cash generating assets like dividend stocks or rental property
2) Have a skill to help you earn even without a job
3) Spend less than you earn
Doing the above consistently, and one will be rather worry free by 30 yrs old. -
I saw this write up in the chinese newspapers a few weeks back - somebody was reading the papers in the MRT and I happened to catch a few glimpse of the write up.
Apparently, they did a survey showing 3 guys' pic to some girls and asked them to rate the guys based on their looks. One was young and good looking, the second was older and average looking, the third was middle aged and not as good looking as the other 2.
As expected, the younger guy got a highest score out of 10, followed by the 2nd guy and then 3rd guy got the lowest score.
Here comes the interesting part. The monthly salaries of these 3 guys were revealed to the girls again and they were asked to rate the guys again based on their looks. (if I could recall correctly, young guy - 2K salary, 2nd guy had 3-4K while the middle aged guy earned the highest at 7-8K).
The score for the 1st guy dropped slightly, while the 2nd and 3rd guy had a marked improvement in the second round of voting.
Go figure.